peak moments / deep in the flow (8 posts)

Topic tags: bliss, flow, peak experience
  • Profile picture of khan khan said 1 year, 10 months ago:

    We’ve probably all had the experience at least once: that moment of bliss, of ecstatic communion when our body, our breath, our heart and our hoop are one with the beat of the music (or no music). Do you remember when you first felt it? When you last felt it? Is there a particular moment that stands out for you?

    The hoop moment that stands out for me (the moment that I sometimes feel like I’m chasing after all the time) was at Lighting in a Bottle in 2008 during a set by the band Kan’nal. They were playing on a beautiful stage in an oak grove, and I’d found a spot away from the crowd, in the middle of a ring of big, old trees. Kan’nal is my kind of music: primal, tribal, trippy. There’s something about hooping to live music that makes it such a richer experience than hooping to a DJ (although I’ve enjoyed hooping to DJs too).

    Anyhow, it was such an intense experience of *now*. The trees spoke to me, the music was in me and the hoop was whirling whirling whirling.

    What’s your stand-out moment?

  • Profile picture of silverstar silverstar said 1 year, 10 months ago:

    I always seem to have breakthroughs during Baxter’s workshops. Last year during the free hoop at the end of class, a kick ass song came on and I was feeling the groove. I felt totally free and uninhibited in my hooping. Everything flowed from one thing to another without any thought and I just basked in it, letting it happen.

    Of course, then later that same night when I was performing at Ruby Skye, I felt the exact opposite and I wondered where that feeling went!

  • Profile picture of HooptomyLoo/QueenLoo HooptomyLoo/QueenLoo said 1 year, 10 months ago:

    This weekend I went to the Oregon Country Fair, (www.oregoncountryfair.org) selling hoops. I started my business HooptomyLoo (www.hooptomyloo.com) a year ago because I love hooping so much, but too often I get sucked in by “business” by crunching numbers, posting things online, and so on, and sometimes days will go without me hooping. This weekend woke me up, the sun was shining, great music was playing and I entered that moment. That-life-is-no-better-than-this moment. I’ll remember that hoop for a long time.

  • Profile picture of HoopsieDaisy HoopsieDaisy said 1 year, 10 months ago:

    I can relate! What often happens is we love hooping so we try to find ways to share our love of hooping with others which usually results in teaching or selling hoops. At some point, we find ourselves doing more hoop-related work than actual hooping! It’s nice to take some time for ourselves and remember what we really loved in the first place.

  • Profile picture of Sharna Rose Sharna Rose said 1 year, 9 months ago:

    My most recent serious intense flow moment in the hoop was at Glastonbury music festival. I was high up on the slope of the hill facing the famous pyramid stage, the sun was setting, the crowd was jumping, the birds were singing…..it was pure bliss (even without a hoop). They have this song off their new album called “Tweak your Nipple” and I was dancing inside of my hoop without fear, I was on fire with creativity, truth, integrity, flow, presence. I mean every cell of my body was singing the song of the creator and yet I was the creator simultaneously. The whole set was awesome for me. I felt so alive… makes me go all goose bumpy just remembering the deliciousness of it.

  • Profile picture of karmasparkle said 1 year, 9 months ago:

    i just recently learned how beautiful and centering sustained spinning can be.. i have felt the hoop bliss many a times, and every time i fall into it my flow is out of this world, but sometimes i have a hard time finding that center right away, which sometimes makes my performances shaky.. but starting a routine with drawn out sustained spinning helps me to feel the centrifugal force in my center and i am already there. ~~*

  • Profile picture of Sue Wilkinson Sue Wilkinson said 1 year, 5 months ago:

    I have felt this flow element each time I have been able to take a class with Baxter, at the time the blindfolds go on. It is a centring moment. A time when I stop worrying about what I look like.

    But the last time I had a true, complete, alive and laughing flow session was early this past summer. In the garden, to a fast rock and roll track by The Baseballs. It just rocked! I could do no wrong. Jumping, moving, using my legs like a dancer, it was all there. It was exhausting because of the high energy required, but afterwards I lay in the grass and smiled at the sky. I could smell the earth and feel the sun. The memory is still clear as a bell.

    I can so relate to the starting a business because you love hooping and then realising it has taken over and you actually don’t have time to hoop anymore. At least not the way you used to hoop or want to hoop.

  • Profile picture of bethlavinder said 1 year, 5 months ago:

    I know what you mean about feeling the flow element with Baxter. I’ve been hooping with him for so long now that all he has to do is say, “put on your blindfolds” and I am there. It’s Pavlovian now.

    Your description of laying in the grass smiling at the sky after feeling Flow reminds me that all of my senses are heightened in those moments. The grass smells grassier, the sky is bluer, the sun shines more beautifully. It’s like tapping in to an altered state, one of intense awareness and appreciation. I wish that I could maintain this state all of the time, but perhaps this is asking a lot. We can’t imagine every day to be one long gorgeous sunset. We appreciate the sunsets more because they are by nature transient. If cherry blossoms adorned trees all year round, I’m not sure that I’d notice them. I’ve read that in Japan, the cherry blossom festivals are considered at their peak just AFTER the trees have passed their fullest point. It’s that bittersweetness of watching the blossoms begin to go that makes the experience that much more poignant and precious.